What I learned from building a house…
Almost six months ago we received an official letter that completely turned our lives upside-down. If we fast forward to today it’s safe to say that it was a roller coaster. Managing work with all this has been stressful because we had to decide so much stuff in such a relativity short period of time. Most people plan such a life changing event a year in advance.
Our starting point
We bought the house when plans were already drawn and when the masonry and roof was already in place. We skipped a big part of the building process like foundations, choosing bricks etc. Luckily for us it was a modern design and really what we both would have envisioned ourselves. We wanted a modern looking building with lots of big windows. Light is such an important factor in your daily life, it affects your mood etc. Most old houses in Belgium consists of small rooms and not enough light. So when you buy something like that you have to knock everything out except the outside walls to get what you want. With the right architect you can turn that into something gorgeous.
Insulation
Living in an old house all these years have thought us it's wise to invest a big part of your budget in insulation. It's called "durable building" if you translate it literally from Dutch. In an average home, one quarter of the heat is lost through the walls, and as much as 40% through the windows. That's why we opted for Low-emissivity (low-e) glass. Its secret is the virtually invisible coating applied to one of the two sheets of glass. This coating lets the sun’s rays through (translating into free heat) while reflecting heat in the room back inside so that it does not escape – forming a shield against the cold. As a result, low-e glass provides twice as much insulation as ordinary double glazing. This allows you to install larger windows without having to worry about the impact on your fuel bill - plus you'll feel comfortable everywhere in the room, even right next to the windows. The roof and walls are another important factor if you want to keep the heat escaping down to a minimum. The government has tax deductions in place for a lot of initiatives that are good for the environment. But from what I saw so far it's a pain to find out if you apply, a lot of "if's" are involved ;)
Think ahead...
We learned that most decisions already have to be known when the architect is setting up a proposal. Take lighting for example: it's very wise to already have a vague idea of what you want because you have to know where the connections have to be cut into the walls so that you don't see any cables. Once the walls are plastered it's too late to do such destructive work. Most modern lighting requires a wall connection or is built into the wall or floor. If you have the money you can order a light study, but I have no idea how much that would cost. They can render a room or space equipped with light-fixtures in virtual reality so that you get an idea how it will be in real life.
The same goes for your computer network, even if it's for personal use. You don't want telephone cables or ethernet cables laying around in your new house. So either you work with cable gutters or you build a box into the floor in the office like we did. All other rooms just have wall connections. Better to have too many connections than too little. Put an ethernet connection next to your TV too for your game console or the the Apple's iTV :D
Broadband internet
Make sure you have your internet connection in place before you move. Even before we had our electricity up and running the necessary preparations were taken. Find out if DSL is still possible, so you know your options. In our case any DSL wasn't possible, so we had to switch to cable instead. Our internet broadband connection was in place pretty soon, one big concern less to worry about.
Deciding on the kitchen
After some extensive research we came to the conclusion that design kitchens cost a fortune. Brands like Butlhaup and Siematic have prices that are above 25,000 euro "cough". I'm no 'Chef de Cuisine' so that's a way over budget. So we opted for the next best thing "Ikea" :) Be sure to bring your plan to the shop, or be prepared to hang around all day and plan your kitchen there like we did. It is something you don't decide lightly and you need to come up with your design before you talk to a representative. But they are very helpful and supply some solid advice. Also don't believe all the measurements on the plan of the architect. Most of the time there will be some difference in reality.
They have a great follow up system in place that calls you when things will be delivered and how much you'll need to pay etc. I even called to ask about the number of the grey color used on the doors and the lady had to do extra research for this because there wasn't any info in their system about it. She called me yesterday with the number. Both Evelyne and Ann V. from Ikea Ternat were very friendly and helpful any time I needed them. You also get a 10 year warranty which is great at their price point. Another tip is don't build it yourself unless you are extremely skilled. You can't believe how many parts a full blown kitchen has, it's a gigantic puzzle. My guess is that it would have taken a month to install ourselves :) Afterwards we were called again with the question if we were satisfied on how everything progressed.
Budget
One thing is enormously clear and that is that building a house is a money eating monster. Never in my entire life I have seen money disappearing so rapidly. You can calculate all you want and you will still come up short because of unforeseen obstacles along the way. Don't forget to calculate the notarial costs (twice, once for the deed (akte in Dutch) and also for the mortgage) and registration rights. All the extras in the house that we decided on costed us an extra 30,000 Euro so be warned. Also it doesn't help if you love design ;) Don't feel bad if you can't do it all at once. You'll want to have new furniture, a terrace, a garden etc. This is something that will take a few years and we don't mind.
The big move
The big moment has arrived for us to prepare the moving and to actually move on Thursday. It could be slow here for the next few days. You know why now :) I'll be so glad once the whole 'thing' will be over. I'm looking forward to some less stressful times. I can't count the moments I wished I've could escaped to a sunny beach, a cocktail in my hand, nothing to worry about and some nice chill tunes playing in the background. Fingers crossed that everything will go smoothly.






